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Financial literacy changes lives.

Melissa Chapman covers 'Can I Have Some Money?' in the Staten Island Advance for parents who want  raise money savvy kids.

For ideas on what to do with the tax refund  click here to continue.

 

Tips on getting out of  debt.

The Jamacia NAACP Day Care Center has ordered CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY? (Vol. 2),  for every child in the Universal Pre-K program.  They are helping children get a head start on how to handle money.  BRAVO!

The Jordan Rich Show / News Radio WBZ1030 featured Candi Sparks on 12/22/07 - How to stay out of debt this Christmas. Thank you Jordan!!!


Financial Literacy Changes Lives

kids and money - family financial concepts

Food for thought - how would your life be different if you had been given financial literacy tools when you were growing up? What can you do to improve the chances of success for the children you care about?

In my opinion, we are not properly preparing our children for the real world, if we do not give them a proper financial education, before they leave home. Maybe it's because we can't teach what we don't know. Adults are struggling themselves, and may not feel qualified to teach the subject of money. Or, maybe they feel "negatively" about money, in general. If so, adults owe it to themselves to seek the help that they need. You have to help yourself before you can help them.

Another reason that many are reluctant to giving children advice about money, is that today children are very "sophisticated." They don't like to be told what to do. So what!? No one does- especially when it comes to money. But, we teach children to eat vegetables and cross at the corner for their own safety - whether they like it or not! So, let's teach them about money, before they go off and get into financial trouble on their own. Let's be proactive, for their safety!

I think children stand a better chance, if we provide financial literacy, from an early age. In addition to the basic teaching about money in math class, we can teach them how to shop, budget, plan their spending and set financial goals. At some point, when children have money of their own (such as an allowance, getting a neighborhood job, gifts or "reward" money), they can make their own spending choices. Through trial and error they can develop good money habits. We can help with through our own experience and helping them to have discipline. Everything is easier when someone believes that you can do it. Let's help them understand money. Before it's too late!


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What to do with the tax refund

Why not PAY YOURSELF FIRST!?   If you are getting a refund, it means you "overpaid" and too many deductions were taken out of your paycheck, during the year.  You are now entitled to get those overpayments back.

Most people feel like they are the last to get "paid" from the paycheck.  The bills, the kids, taxes, charity, emergencies.... so many things can chip away at the check.

The refund is a  perfect chance to put that refund into a personal account.  It can be put to good use in:

-creating an emergency fund to avoid debt, the next time something unexpected "comes up"

-setting up a retirement account if you don't have one at work

-contributing more toward your savings or  retirement account

 


Tips On Getting Out of Debt

Most people don't plan to stay in debt, they simply fail to plan a way to become debt free.  When it comes to debt, what is your plan?

  • Buy only what you need.

  • Make cash purchases only. If you can’t pay in cash, you really can’t afford it.

  • Brown bag your lunch and eat at home.

  • Negotiate lower interest rates (if you pay on time and more than the minimum).

  • Find more money – can you shop and use any rebate offers?  Any left over gift cards you haven't used yet?  Did you submit all of your flexible spending expenses from 2007?

  • Lower your bills. Review and analyze your expenses – can you get a better deal on your cell phone?

  • Do it yourself.   Do your hair, nails and clothing repairs, and your own home repairs.

  • Make gift returns or exchanges right away – some stores set a time limit for holiday merchandise to be returned or exchanged!

  • Plan to be DEBT FREE!

    DON'T

  • Borrow more money to pay off the other debt!

  • Miss payments.  It will only make matters worse – you will incur a penalty and may even trigger other lenders to raise their rates. The credit reporting agencies will pick up this information and it may come back to haunt you.

  • Lose sight of your goal of being debt free!   You are worth it!

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    Can I Have Some Money, by Candi Sparks, is  an accounting book keeping course for kids, teaching kids about money with the brain in mind
     To raise money smart kids, view a slide show by Candi Sparks on iVillage.com click here.

     

    Can I Have Some Money?  is about raising money smart kids.   Currently the kids book series is being developed into music and television projects to help teach kids about money from a young age.  The kid friendly material is designed to put financial literacy tools directly in their hands, eyes and ears.  After all, kids learn what they live! 

    Parents, educators and caregivers who enjoy Can I Have Some Money?  visit the site to buy books, download the newsletters or check out workshops for the kids, but more often than not, they wind up contacting us "to do something for the adults."  Or at a minimum, they want to include  the adults in a child - parent activity workshop based on the Can I Have Some Money?  book series. 

    The credit crunch, housing crisis and bailouts have rippled through the economy, causing everyone to focus on the state of their own personal finances.   The global economy is affecting our family's quality of life and spending habits.   

    When adults are facing a financial crisis, it is more important than ever to raise money savvy kids who know the value of a dollar!  Yet kids usually take money for granted -   unless we can find a way to teach them "money smarts."  The value in teaching kids about money before they get their first job or paycheck is that they have a better chance of becoming financially stable adults.  So how hard is it raise money savvy kids?  What can you do to teach good money habits when dealing with a young person who's natural inclination is to make you spend, spend, spend?  Can kids learn about money?

    From a young age, children learn that having money can make them feel loved and powerful.  We give them our hard earned money to satisfy their needs (food, clothing, shelter.. all the stuff they [hopefully] take for granted).  So when it comes to kids and money, they relate money to what they want - treats candy, toys,  gum, iPods, sneakers - the things that satisfy the child.  The hard earned money you spend on them is equated with personal satisfaction.  There is well established emotional link to money and a kid's personal satisfication when they start asking, "Can I Have Some Money?"  The kids know you love them - which is why you spend money on them.  Yet, you don't want them to confuse your money with your love.  How can kids learn the value of a dollar,  and understand that your love and care is what is truly priceless!? 

    Kids can also confuse money with happiness.   Watch what happens in the supermarket check-out line when young children start eyeballing the gumballs and plastic toys!  They understand that having money (and the things it can buy), can lead them to feeling good about themselves.  They also tend to feel very positively about the source of that money.  They will ask and demand, "Can I have some money?" during the entire store check-out process.    They children ask for money to get something that makes them feel good.    (Continue)

    Everyone Asks "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?"   Reviews and Photos
    Teens & Money

    On the other hand, the lack of money (or the things it can buy), can leave children feeling miserable and vulnerable.  They have a negative emotional reaction.  When they ask for money and are told, "No," they feel badly about you (because they think you have an unlimited supply of money and can just go get some more of it), and they feel badly about themselves.   Then you feel guilty and might be tempted to cave in.  Most of the time, the battle is usually focused on the extra things a child wants, but not always.  Sometimes, it is just that the child is asking at a bad time.  When families face a financial crises (lay off, unemployement, medical situation, etc.),  it  affects the how money is allocated to the needs of family.   At times like this, families might not be in a position to get the things they or want, or need.  Like it or not, an emotional link between money, self-esteem and the potential source of money is generally established  in childhood. 

    At first, the source of the money for children is the parent or caregiver.  As children mature and grow, the potential sources of money expand t include the jobs, employment, credit card, the bank, credit union, etc.   In the golden years, the source of money shifts away from outside sources toward whatever funds the retireee has been able to accumulate during the working years.  "Can I have some money?" is a question that is first asked in childhood, and takes a lifetime to answer! 

    Looking at the current rates of household debt, pay day loans, foreclosures and poorly funded retirements, it seems that our society is not not doing a very good job of handling money.  Unless we take proactive measures within the family to counteract negative messages about money,  where does this leave our children?     They need and deserve a financial education!

    Wouldn't it be great if from the beginning, children got teaching about money with the brain and the emotions in mind.  What if we taught them about money in a way that  (1) does not equate money with self-esteem;  (2) gets them to stop fighting with you about money; and (3) teaches children about third-party money [credit, loans and borrowing]  as well as growing their own money [savings, planning and investments], before they reach adulthood?  Not from an organization that is trying to "sell" a financial service, but from one that is committed to keeping the dream of financial freedom alive.  It can be done.  As they mature, here are a few areas you might want to give your kids a "heads up" on, over time, before they leave home.

    If you want your family to know more about finances than "Money doesn't grow on trees!" but don't know where to get the next lesson... "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?" Workshops & Books are for those born with a plastic spoon in their mouths, who want to trade up for bigger and better!


     

    Can I Have Some Money, by Candi Sparks, is  an accounting book keeping course for kids, teaching kids about money with the brain in mind

    CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?  Volume 2  Price:  US $9.99 shipping & handling included.  Tax is additonal.  This is  24-page illustrated book,  introducing  kids to financial concepts like budets, savings, credit, credit cards and more!  Shows how the family functions as an economic unit.  Charming Illustrations by William Graf.  Good parent child reading activity or for family money workshops.  ISBN 978-0-9789445-0-6.  Library of Congress Control No.  2006910385


    Teens & Money

    Teens today are living in a more financially sophisticated world than their parents ever did!  And they are well aware of that fact.  Any group or organization that has the purpose of empowering its members to succeed financially, must not overlook what they can do to help our young people.

    When it comes to money, teens need to be stimulated to earn it, and challenged to keep it. They need to know that they CAN become financially sucessful, and need to know HOW they can do it in ways that are safe, legal and empowering.  However, to reach this crowd, it is ineffective to come off like a financial "talking head".   They want to see you getting your own results and will judge you by the level of satisfaction you receive from YOUR OWN ACTIONS.

    No one wants to be "told" what to do when it comes to money.  Teens, like adults, want to help in finding out what their options are, and then receive enough support and encouragement to go home and try out for themselves.  Their own experience will teach them what does (or doesn't) work.

    Teens need financial empowerment in a forum that is  fun, informative and user-friendly to be as effective as possible.   They also need time and patience.  They didn't learn to walk in one day - so their efforts at financial independence will take time and guidance.   The best way to provide this guidance is to KEEP YOURSELF ON TRACK!  They are watching!

    "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?" is well suited for:

    • Schools, PTA's, Parent Coordinators
    • Community or Private Organizations
    • Family Money Workshops
    • Parent Empowerment Workshops
    • Libraries and Adult Education
    • Financial Literacy for Family and Youth Programs
    • Teen Career Days
    • Enhance Cirriculum, Classroom Support, Enrichment
    • Professional Development
    • Faith Based Organizations   


    CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY? (Vol. 3) MAX GETS IT!

     

    Child literature - Can i have some money, Max gets it, by Candi Sparks

    This 32-page illustrated book introduces earning an allowance, impulse buying, budgeting, savings and banking. Price: 9.99. Tax, shipping and handling are additional. ISBN-13: 978-0-9789445-1-3. Library of Congress Control No. 2006910385.

    CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY is a trademark of Sparks Fly. Copyright 2006. All rights reserved.
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    Family Money Workshops - preschool teaching, child literature to teaching teens - can i have some money is a useful teaching tool approved for all.

    President Bill Clinton, with Candi Sparks (Public Speaker & Author of "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?" with a millionaire in the making.



    Family money Workshop testimonial from Bill deBlasio: Can I Have Some Money by Candi Sparks, is a readable, entertaining little book that is an excellant way to introduce children to the issues of budgeting, saving, credit and other grown-up money matters.

    Council member Bill deBlasio with Candi Sparks, Speaker & Author of "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?"

    "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY" by Candi Sparks, is a readable, entertaining little book that is an excellent way to introduce children to the issues of budgeting, saving, credit and other grown up money matters."

    Bill de Blasio, New York City Councilmember


    "Oh, this book is so adorable! "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?" I love that title! That\'s what everyone around here is asking. I am going to read it to Kevin!"

    Wendy Williams, WBLS Radio Personality and "Queen of All Media"

     


     

    "This is perfect for my son! I love this!"

    Parents at the 2007 UFT Citywide Parent Conference in NYC love CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?

     


    Read an online review at Bookideas.com

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    "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?" That is the question!  Whether it is nobler to be poor, or if rich are greedy.  Everyone has...

    a basic attiude about money, that was first developed in childhood.  Money behaviors and financial values are learned at an early age, from what goes on in the home.

    Children learn about money from how their parents handle it.  They are sensitive to the parents' money complaints, when the bills come in, what happens at the cash register, when the parents empty half of the grocery cart to what they can afford, and what the parents say, when the children ask, "CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY?"

    Yet, what children see and feel about money in the home, is just as important as what they DON"T.  Most adults never balance their checkbooks.  Purchases are  rarely recorded in the personal ledger, at the time of purchase.  But then, they hear the complaints when the bills arrive.

    Money messages infiltrate the home from the TV, radio and the internet.  The media both perpetuates and manipulates our feelings about ourselves and our money.

    Financial literacy requires teaching with the brain and the emotions in mind.  It helps when individuals can distinguish between wants and needs, and children see adults who are successful in setting and reaching their financial goals.

    CAN I HAVE SOME MONEY is a trademark of Sparks Fly. Copyright 2006. All rights reserved. Contact by phone (866) 556-2432
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